More Than Medical Care: Why Your Family Needs an End-of-Life Doula

When a loved one enters hospice care, families often feel a wave of relief knowing medical needs will be met. Nurses will manage pain; aides will help with bathing. But very quickly, families realize there is a massive gap between medical visits.

Who sits with them during the long hours when you need a break? Who helps you navigate complicated family emotions? Who helps you plan what the final days should actually look and feel like?

This is the role of an End-of-Life Doula. Just as a birth doula supports a mother bringing life into the world, a death doula supports a person and their family as they transition out of it.

We are the non-medical missing piece.

We Are Navigators & Planners: Death, like birth, has stages. We help you understand what to expect so you aren’t frightened by normal changes. We help you create a "Vigil Plan"—a blueprint for the final days. Do they want quiet or a room full of people? Specific music? Prayer? We ensure this plan is known and honored.

We Are a Calming Presence: Medical staff come and go. A doula can be present for long stretches of time. We offer respite to exhausted caregivers, allowing you to go home and sleep knowing your loved one isn't alone. We provide a calming presence, active listening, and emotional support to the entire family unit.

We Are Advocates: In the emotion of the moment, it's hard to speak up. We act as a bridge between the family and medical teams, ensuring your questions are answered and your loved one's wishes for comfort are never sidelined.

Hospice takes care of the body. An End-of-Life Doula takes care of the person, the family, and the sacred experience of saying goodbye. You don't have to walk this path alone.

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